My youngest child is 7 months pregnant. She looks so lovely. The baby, we think its a boy, is always moving and reminding her he's there. There's just one thing I wish was different about her being pregnant, she's young.. She has decided to put the baby up for adoption. In my head I know it's the best but in my heart it's tearing me apart. It will be a open adoption and he will grow up knowing her and his father which is a blessing. May all of you who are adopted or have put your child up for adoption know that I now understand the pain and joy of such a decision.